Yes , me too . Because Carter destroy a sun , no ? And i think that the SGC did not do what people in Atlantis do in post trinity fic( but i don't read a lot of SG1 fic so who know ?).

And frankly , i think that Teyla and Ronon can forgive him because they want the wraith dead (and Rodney did that for having the wraith dead and other thing).

Furthemore Weir is diplomat , she understand that sometimes , you must do dangerous thng .

And yes , i always wonder why Rodney didn't react ....

But i think it is because people who write post trinity fic loves Rodney . i thnk it is their favorite charater.And when you have a favorite , you like to see like a poor character sometimes ...But i can help but notice that in general , it is the friend of Rodney (who are the most hard on him (john , elizabeth , ...).So for me , people who write post trinity like having Rodney as first character and perhaps like him helpless (or they want him to suffer and thinking' oh the bad SGC' and after that , he didn't stay in Atlantis and the other in atlantis want him to stay or to come in Atlantis ).

For your answer at my comment , i understand that you have a life (and sorry for the answer )