'well, actually, I really don't think the gay male experience on those things is that different from the gay female experience

you think the physical fear is the *exact* same? that's a big statement, idk if I can agree with that.

You're probably over this conversation by now, I'm so behind on my commenting. But. Generally what I say to rants like this, is that if someone is upset about something, they're upset about something. And if what's upsetting them doesn't apply to *you*, then it doesn't apply to you. So don't worry about it.

A discussion about gay and bi women in slash fandom would be nice, but this wasn't that. (It didn't even start out being about fandom at all.)